How I Locked Up a $4M Building by Saying (Almost) Nothing

Josh Perez • May 26, 2025

People sometimes ask me how I managed to buy a 23-unit building for $4 million — especially when they hear that I “didn’t say anything” to close the deal. While that might be a bit of an exaggeration, it’s not entirely wrong. What sealed that deal wasn’t a flashy pitch or aggressive negotiating — it was listening.


Here’s what actually happened.


We had been in negotiations for a while. The seller was very particular about who he wanted to sell to — and rightfully so. He wasn’t looking for a buyer who was going to swoop in, pay tenants for cash-for-keys, and force everyone out. This wasn’t just a numbers game for him. It was personal.


In fact, the selling realtor told us directly that there were higher offers on the table — offers that were rejected because they didn’t align with the seller’s values. He wasn’t just looking for top dollar. He was looking for the right kind of buyer.

Eventually, we managed to get on a call directly with the seller — just him and us. No middleman. No pressure. He started talking. And talking.


And I’ll be honest — for the first 20 or 25 minutes, it felt like a dead end. He went over everything he didn’t want, what had gone wrong with other offers, and how he was feeling uncertain. I remember zoning out for a second and thinking, This deal is dead. This isn’t happening.

But then something changed.

“Near the end of the call, he casually mentioned he’d be open to a vendor take-back — and not just any VTB, but one that was significantly more generous than what we had heard through the realtor.”

That one comment completely changed the math on the deal. Suddenly, we could put in less capital than expected. Then he added that he’d even be willing to manage the property after the sale — and for a very nominal fee.

That’s when it all clicked. What seemed like a non-starter 30 minutes earlier turned into a perfectly aligned opportunity — because we were willing to shut up and listen.


Had we rushed to pitch our side, or tried to “close” him early in the call, we would’ve missed the golden moment. But instead, by giving him space to share what he truly wanted, we found the common ground that led to a win-win.


The Takeaway?

Listening is one of the most underrated tools in real estate investing. Sometimes the best move you can make is not to speak — it’s to stay in the conversation long enough to actually hear what matters most to the other side.

It’s not always about having the best offer on paper. It’s about understanding the people involved.


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Deposit vs. Down Payment: Key Differences for Homebuyers

By Josh Perez • February 18, 2026
When you’re buying a home, two terms often cause confusion: deposit and down payment . While they’re related, they serve very different purposes in the homebuying process. Here’s what you need to know. What Is a Deposit? A deposit is the money you provide when you make an offer on a property. Think of it as a show of good faith that proves you’re serious about purchasing. How it works : Typically, you provide a certified cheque or bank draft that your real estate brokerage holds in trust. If your offer is accepted, the deposit remains in trust until the deal moves forward. If negotiations fall through, the deposit is refunded. Connection to your down payment : Once the sale is finalized, your deposit becomes part of your total down payment. Why it matters : The amount is negotiable, but a larger deposit can make your offer more attractive in a competitive market. Keep in mind, however, that if you back out after conditions are removed, you risk losing your deposit. What Is a Down Payment? Your down payment is the amount you contribute toward the purchase price of your home when securing a mortgage. Minimum requirement : In Canada, the minimum down payment is 5% of the home’s purchase price. Anything less than 20% requires mortgage default insurance. Sources : Down payments can come from your savings, the sale of another property, RRSP withdrawals (through the Home Buyers’ Plan), a gift from family, or even borrowed funds. Example: How They Work Together Imagine you’re buying a $400,000 home with a 10% down payment ($40,000). When you make your offer, you provide a $10,000 deposit . Once conditions are met, that deposit is transferred to your lawyer’s trust account. At closing, you add the remaining $30,000 to complete your full down payment. The lender provides the rest—$360,000—through your mortgage. The Bottom Line Your deposit shows commitment and secures your offer, while your down payment is what makes the mortgage possible. Together, they work hand in hand to get you into your new home. 📞 If you’d like clarity on deposits, down payments, or any other part of the mortgage process, let’s connect. I’d be happy to walk you through it step by step.
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Is a 5% Down Payment a Mistake? Here’s the Unpopular Truth.

By Josh Perez • February 15, 2026
Discover why a 5% down payment isn’t always irresponsible. Learn when a low down payment is a smart financial move for Ontario homebuyers and when it’s a risk.